A Development Approach to Working with Teen Victims
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Our guest author Mitru Ciarlante is director of the [Youth] Initiative at the National Center for Victims of Crime in Washington, D.C. The [Youth] Initiative builds the nation’s capacity to respond to youth victimization while advancing youth rights and protections and ensuring that youth voices are heard on these issues.
This project was supported by Grant No. 2007-TA-AX-K024 awarded by the Officeon Violence Against Women, U.S. Department of Justice. The opinions, findings, conclusions, and recommendations expressed in this program are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the views of the Department of Justice, Office on Violence Against Women.
A Development Approach to Working with Teen Victims
Adolescence is a period of great change. In addition to the transformations we normally associate
with this life stage, the architecture of the brain is in flux as the foundational structures for adult
behavior and thought processes are being built. Victimization during this crucial time can act as a
wrecking ball, threatening the stability of these emerging structures.
Although teen victimization doubles the risk for a multitude of problems, teen victims of crime do
not receive the same level of intervention and support as adults (National Council on Crime and
Delinquency, National Center for Victims of Crime, 2002). Yet if adult practitioners apply basic
knowledge of adolescent development to work with teen victims, teens are more likely to obtain
the interventions they need. Law enforcement professionals, juvenile and family court personnel,
advocates, and other victim assistance practitioners serve vital roles in intervening in juvenile victimization. A developmental approach to practice issues that arise in various stages of the justice
process will improve practitioners’ decision-making in juvenile victimization cases, and will:
- enhance practitioners’ communications with teen victims and witnesses;
- augment safety planning with teen victims and witnesses;
- promote teen cooperation with investigation and prosecution;
- improve the quality and outcomes of investigations in teen cases;
- increase teen willingness to report crime.
Adolescence is the stage between puberty and adulthood, from about ages 10 to 17. The transition
from childhood to adulthood involves tremendous physical, emotional, cognitive, and social changes.
During adolescence, teens begin to move from concrete thinking to abstract thinking and face other
common developmental tasks. Figuring out who they are and who they are becoming is the overriding challenge for teens. They are developing an identity—the set of thoughts, feelings, and attitudes one uses to make decisions about one’s behavior. Teens’ experiences shape their brain structure for behavior and thought, and once this form is set, it is difficult to rearrange. Experiencing
violence and abuse during identity development affects this form in lasting ways.
Puberty, the stage of sexual maturation and rapid physical growth, entails many developmental
- adjustment to physical changes;
- acceptance of sexual feelings;
- understanding personal boundaries, roles, and relationships;
- knowledge of reproductive processes;
- experiences with degrees of intimacy; and
- ntegration of socially acceptable standards of sexual expression.
Teens are developing greater independence from their families and are realizing that some of their
emerging values and beliefs are different from those of their parents. As family relationships change,
peer relationships become highly influential and more intimate. During this time of changing rules
and increasing freedoms, teens are negotiating new and tricky social situations. Support and guidance
can help teens navigate new, but necessary, decision-making challenges. Teens need to gain decisionmaking experience and learn from mistakes with support from adults.
Intimate Partner Abuse
Until they have a secure identity, teens have no stable center from which to make choices and decisions. As a result, they may define themselves according to the likes and dislikes of their peers,
particularly in dating relationships, which often begin by age 14. The desire to be accepted drives
many young people to conform to strict gender roles such as those demanding aggression from
boys and passivity from girls. These social norms profoundly affect the identity development of
youth and contribute to vulnerability for intimate partner abuse. Those teens who seem to challenge
these norms face hostility or violence.
Teens’ lack of experience with intimacy makes it difficult to negotiate their new sexuality, handle
relationship conflict, and realize the seriousness of intimate partner abuse. Teens may believe that
possessive jealousy, controlling behavior, and even sexual pressure are expressions of love. Teens
in abusive relationships are particularly vulnerable to the controlling and isolating behavior that
abusers often exercise over their partners. Abusive relationships can damage victims’ identity development and increase their emotional dependence on others. Practitioners must be able to help
and support teen victims who fail to recognize abusive behaviors or who refuse to end their relationships despite the abuse.
Youth with same-sex partners experience the same types of intimate partner abuse as those in opposite-sex relationships, but their safety concerns are greater when they seek help. Youth who are perceived as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender are at a higher risk for violent verbal, physical,
and sexual victimization. Practitioners should maintain confidentiality. Also, it’s important to respect
the youth’s expression of gender and sexuality and learn how the youth identifies, because not all
youth who have same-sex experiences or relationships will identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or
Many teens hesitate to tell adults when they’ve been victimized. When teens are abused in relationships, they may feel regret over choices they have made. Victims need nonjudgmental support
when they list and share the choices they wish they had made differently. At the same time, they
need to hear that no one has the right to hurt them regardless of what they may have done or regrets
they may have.
Support for Youth Victims
Teen victims of dating violence, sexual violence and stalking have a right to information to help
them make their own choices about criminal proceedings, pursuing civil justice, seeking crisis intervention, counseling, and advocacy support. Practitioners who understand adolescent development
will realize that successful approaches for adults may not work with teens. Teens may simply need
adults to listen and then support their efforts to use available information or services. They may
prefer information over help, advocacy over counseling, and a discussion about rights rather than
protection. We can powerfully support teen victims by offering options and asking how we might
Helping Teen Victims: Lessons From Field Work
I feel pressed to gather critical information and worry that my questions won’t be
answered in the time available.
- Teens do not open up on demand.
- Teens are still negotiating trust with adults.
- Teens’ sense of what is important differs from that of adults.
- Plan for more frequent and less lengthy interactions with teen victims.
- Allow teen victims to tell what happened without interruption or questions.
- Explain the time frame and important deadlines in the case.
I take over or “parent” teen victims and find myself using more leading statements,
giving advice, or telling teens what to do.
- Teens are likely to shut down or rebel against control.
- Teens desire independence but lack decision-making experience.
- Teens receive conflicting advice from different sources.
- Listen, give information, and ask what support teen victims need to make decisions.
- Instead of giving advice, present ideas as rights and options for victims to consider.
- Help teen victims explore the safety and feasibility of their choices.
I question the victim’s behavior more when working with teens, or I make judgments
- Teens engage in more impulsive behavior and risktaking than adults do.
- Teens may not react the way adults assume victims should react.
- Teens cope with victimization in ways that may be hard for others to understand.
- Use a non-judgmental tone of voice.
- Avoid questions that ask “why” or “why not.”
- Don't blame the victim! Consider how your approach may affect a teen victim.
It's hard to get teens to use the available interventions and support.
- Teens weigh many factors in deciding whether to use help.
- Peer support, peer counseling, and support groups may be more welcome than one-onone counseling.
- Teens need to be able to trust the privacy of services.
- Offer teens victims multiple options for receiving support.
- Ask teen advisors to evaluate outreach approaches, service options, and locations.
- Address confidentiality and safety concerns up front.
Sometimes a teen’s priorities conflict with what I need to discuss, and it can be
challenging to stay focused on the important issues.
- Teen values are shaped by intense social and emotional pressure.
- Teens are loyal to relationships and sensitive to implied criticism of others— even those who
are hurting them.
- Teens focus on short-term outcomes.
- Attend to teen victims’ “here and now” needs and concerns first.
- Listen for the social and emotional pressures influencing teen victims and validate their experiences.
- Practice relating to a wide range of teens with a variety of attitudes.
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